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Forget Resolutions, Focus on Changing Your Story
Let go of the outcome, success is in the commitment to the process.
As 2021 gets closer, we start to question our habits and routines and embark on a journey to a better self. We set New Year’s Resolutions that fail and leave us back at zero or even worse off.
When committing to change, we focus on the broken parts of ourselves that need to be fixed. We look at the bad, and attempt to be less bad.
If you want to make a change for good in 2021 you have to give up your story. The story of the old you, is dead. You are not that person anymore, stop allowing those thoughts and behaviors to control you. You are not a victim. You are a survivor. Focus on what matters most, right now.
It Starts With Our Identity
Our identity is more than just our personality. It is our story and beliefs we tell ourselves about who we are. It is made up of perceived memories, experiences, qualities and values, that shape who we are today.
Do you ever think, “we are who we are”. Is this true? Or is is it a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you say, “I can NEVER do that” — you prove yourself right and you never do that.
